"Boo Thang" What is it?

Boo Thang- According to the Urban Dictionary it is someone that is not your partner, but you care for them, respect them, spend time with them, and got a lot of love for the person. Some of us fall into this category and are quite content on staying there. We see this as a ghetto term of endearment and a way to have the one we truly want, without the expectations of a real relationship and without really making them our one and only. I have used this term in a joking manner, when it was introduced to me and thought it was very funny! But, by no means do I have a "Boo Thang" or will I ever think of the one I deem special or important as such. The person that I have envisioned or deemed worthy is a special man and he far exceeds the realm of a "Boo Thang". He is the real deal in every since of the word. The smile he puts on my face, the laughter he brings from within me, how he brightens my day, and feed my mind with lovely words & thoughts. He has a special place in my heart and that is not easy to do, but he is very welcomed & wanted. A nice change of pace and much needed peace. He puts me at ease and makes feel important in all aspects. Sometimes we meet people and they are the perfect fit for us, but they are going through a break-up, involved with another, or simply just hurt and afraid from the past. At that moment we can either cut our losses, or just let it play out and see where the road takes us. I can say I have never had a "Boo Thang", nor do I want one. But, I am loving getting to know the "Real Thang". Randomly Yours, Raven Storm