Being Tamed!

Have you ever heard of the saying trying to tame a wild horse or that horse needs to be tamed? I think sometimes that their are some women who truly are wild in the sense, that they are very strong and independent and afraid to let their guards down. Kinda like trying to tame a wild horse. I mean if you truly think about it, their are certain types of men out there that are for the taming and some who truly are not up for the challenge.I guess what I am saying is that when a man meets a woman he knows if she is easily broken or if she is going to take some work. I guess i'm a wild horse in some ways, especially when it comes to relationships and work. For me it's going to take the right man to truly tame me and make me feel secure within a friendship, relationship, and just being able to trust him,his words,his actions,and that his intentions are true when it comes to the us, our, and we. It' so funny to me when my friends and I sit and talk about men who get with crazy women, women with drama or baggage and the many kids or many marriages or just the lying period.Then my friends say to me that black men are sorry, liars, or just a mess. I choose to believe that every man is different and I will never give up on the black man. You have good ones and bad ones and it's all a toss up in the game of friendship & love. But, in the end do we tame our men or do they tame us? Maybe we tame each other and it shouldn't really matter who got who or which one of you are calling the shots. As long as you have respect, love, trust, honesty, and communication you can go far and make any friendship or relationship work through good times and bad times. As always i'm Raven Storm and these are just my random thoughts!