Deserving To Be Treated The Right Way!

Are we really being treated the way we deserve and need to be? I ask this question because so many times we allow others to walk all over us, give us the crap that's left over, disrespect us, and make us feel as if we have done something wrong because we show them love or something they have never had before. How many times have you been with someone or liked a person, only to have them not appreciate you or tell you how bad their last relationship was or that their not use to all the love and attention your giving them. I find it hard to believe that a person would stay with someone who never tells them how special they are, that their life is so much brighter with them in it, take the time to listen to their needs, support their dreams, make love to their mind as we as their body and just give them intimacy everyday in every way. I must admit I am a romantic and I believe in love and that their is a good man out their somewhere waiting to find me or we find each other. And, even with the fears I have it's worth the risk for love with the right person. People forget that love is never boastful, it's not proud, it's not blind, but it's patient, kind, forgiving, and stands through the good and the bad at all times. Maybe, I am just a sucker when it comes to matters of the heart but I know that I would rather have loved than to have never had it at all. I also know that I deserve a strong, loving, kind, and gentle man who treats me as his equal, yet still me knowing that he is the head at all times and we respect and love one another and can agree to disagree and he will be my King and I his Queen. That's what I want and as women we need to allow men to be that knight in shining armour for us. What I mean is allow a man to be a man and follow his lead and you may be surprise by the journey you guys take and the wonders you explore together. And, men allow your woman to shine and treat her with care and attention and realize that she will be your backbone and follow you to the ends of the earth as long as you make her a priority. Don't ever allow others to treat you less than what you deserve. And if a person leaves you or walks out, then they never deserved you to begin with. A lot of times taking someone back shows how we really truly feel about ourselves. I love myself and refuse to go back to someone who left me as if there was another great woman out their. When you know your self worth and your true value, you will never allow a person to come back and treat you the same or act as if their actions were okay! If, that person really loved and wanted you then they would have never left or made the mistakes they did to ruin the relationship to begin with. It's something to truly think about! Randomly Yours, Raven Storm