Why is it that men have just as many issues, if not more than women? But, yet they expect us to be perfect and deal with their bullshit! I mean we have to keep hair done, toes & nails painted and looking fresh, our figure in tact and perform on demand.While their sorry asses may or may not have a job, baby mama drama, no car, and living at home with their mom or have a roommate. I mean they can't always perform on demand, they let us down, sometimes they keep their hair cut and beard trimmed and lot's of times they are unfaithful and don't help with bills. Then they have the nerve to date outside of their race and if we do that, then were not holding a brother down or were betraying our black men! What the hell? If, our black men did right by themselves, by the Lord, and by us then we as black women wouldn't think about dating outside our race, or have to raise our kids alone, or even consider being by ourselves! The truth is that as women we are the back bone to our men and some of them do not appreciate us or think enough of us to show just how special we are to them. Yet, we stand by and support our men through good and bad times but when we need them they are no where to be found. Don't get me wrong there are some good men out there, but most of them are either gay, dating outside their race or with a woman who doesn't appreciate them either. So, what is a woman to do? If and when you find the answer to that question please send me an email. Seriously trust in God and he will lead a good man to you, but you have to be open and willing to let go of all the past hurt and trusting of the new love that God is sending your way. Randomly Yours, Raven Storm
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