Relationships, Oh My God!

Relationships are suppose to be easy and not so damn hard! I mean I expect some bumps in the road, but damn from the start their should be none. Having sex should be fun, free, and flowing and spending time should be an adventure of mishaps and good times. Why is it that if a woman wants to have sex no strings attached, then she is wrong for that or if she says lets have fun and see where this goes a man tries to change the dynamics of the agreement. I mean he can't handle her not wanting to be attached or hanging on to his every word or move. But, If he says let's have fun with no attachment then it's okay or expected of him. Why can't as adults we make a clear cut decision when it comes to sex and relationships or both? I mean can we not be lover, friend and partner or just one of the three without someone making a big deal or freaking out? Since when does having just sex or wanting just sex have to be a part-time job? I mean since when do men ask so many damn questions about it?You use to be able to tell a man sex no strings attached and they came running, now they ask as many questions as a chick would. And, it ain't pretty! So, now we women must come prepared and be ready for the guy who acts like a chick and can't understand how we as women can become sexual predators like themselves. Randomly Yours, Raven Storm