Why is it that when were in love, we seem to be on top of the mountain or up in the clouds? It's like being in space looking out over the world and saying this person has me truly spinning and it feels so good! It's in this moment that we may or may not realize what it truly means to love unselfishly, to give of yourself for another human being and to think of his or her needs before your own.Some call this the honeymoon phase and others call this the chemical imbalance that is going on in our brain that makes us feel all lovey dovey and they can do no wrong period! Truly however this phase is what you make it and if you want it to be the happiest moment of your new found relationship or just a bypass in the road of loneliness, then so be it. So many times we want to hold on to the ideas of what love is or how it's suppose to feel, look, and be that we loose sight of what it truly is. Love is never boastful, it's never angry, never blind, and love is very forgiving and kind. When we fall from that mountain or cloud, it truly is a long way down. And, the pain from the fall is sometimes life long and long lasting. The one thing I have discovered about love and the heart is that it's a strong muscle and with a little tender care from the right person, it can make a full recovery and climb that mountain again.The only thing I am sure of is if you live long enough, you will experience heartache and if you give it another shot you will find something wonderful and true. So, even though it's a long way down having love, finding love, and being love is worth all the bumps and bruises. Randomly Yours, Raven Storm!
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