Sex is the act of two people sharing a mutual connection or body fluids... Only kidding, at least for myself. There are some people who make sex into one nite stands, meaningless hook-ups, or ways to cover up the pain of getting truly involved and hurt again. For me it is a much deeper connection to give myself in that way. I don't make it a point to have random sex and if I lay with you and keep in contact with you afterwards, then you are special and if I look at you while were in the act of being sexual or making love, then I am truly taken by you and my feelings are strong. I am very particular about who I sleep with, and who I let put their mouth on me and who I give myself to. As, adults you sleep with who you want whether it's the first nite, a week, or a month or two later. People feel that if you wait or hold out a person will have more respect for you, and it really depends on the person your with and their moral compass. It's funny because I started having sex at the age of 18 and I was always in relationships for years at a time. Even the one fling I had at the age of 22 was followed by months of chase and then a few months of hot enjoyable sex, yet I treated him as a piece of meat. That's all he was to me and no feelings were attached and I discarded him as such. Seeing as how I didn't enjoy that I never did that again to myself or another guy, even though he had no problem with it, and that was our understanding. Now that I am older I did something I have never done before and it was sleep with a man on the first nite and it felt so right! I mean he is different in so many ways, and the conversation was very good, it was something about his eyes, the calmness of his spirit and how gentle he was. I was drinking that nite, but I was in my right mind and it just felt right. Sex to me is something that I think about all the time, but I do not act on it. I have to be with someone that I care about or that I have chosen to give myself to and he will be the only one that I sleep with. I don't believe in sharing myself with more than one person at a time. It doesn't mean that I'm in love with you, means that I like you a lot. It takes a lot for me to fall in love with a man, and if and when I say those words then and only then does it mean that you truly have my heart and me. For some people sex is just that and only that! If, I put my mouth on you in all ways then you are special, & if I allow you to put your mouth on all parts of me that's a big deal! Now, I would like to believe that if a man puts his mouth on all parts of a woman he just meets that she means something to him or he's just nasty & if he does that to everyone he meets then he needs to be tested and some therapy too! That's just my opinion and my opinion only! Sometimes two people meet and have a connection that is so strong that any and everything happens. But, the key is to let it happen and not to try and control where it may lead. Sex to me means many different things and has many layers and can only be defined by you and the person you choose to have it with. So, if your into random sex, sex that leads to something or nothing or to whatever, just realize that it always involves a person's emotions. Always realize that sex means you must consider the other person and their feelings and the consequences that come along with it. Randomly Yours, Raven Storm!
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