Ex- Someone that you use to be involved with, i.e. wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend. I'm unsure of what to really say on this matter, because I have had an ex come back a few times. Now that I sit and think about it, I should have never taken him back the first time, and certainly not the second time. But, some of us want to believe that our ex has changed or they have learned their lesson or they really love us. When and if your ex comes back, you have to ask yourself is it worth having them in your life? Do they make your life easier, bring you good fortune, help out when you get in a bind or are they cause of you being in a bind. I mean let's face it when there around your luck seems to go from good to worst, they make your life a lot harder than it needs to be and they don't contribute to your overall household. That is God's way of saying that your ex is not the person for you and you need to drop that dead weight. I can't tell you what to do for you or if you should take your ex back, but you should consider a few things: Have they changed, can you see the change, what are they bringing to the table this time, do you feel safe and secure around them, and most importantly can you trust them. These are very important things on your list that you should be able to put a check by and say yes to all of them. If you can't say yes to at least three or more then you should leave that dead weight right where it's at. After all you have moved on to greener pastures and sunny skies and happier days. Sometimes the past needs to stay in the past, in order to allow the future to be right and bright!
Randomly Yours, Raven Storm
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