When He's Just Not That Into You?

The reason I put a question mark behind this statement is because, what do you do when this happens to you? I mean you like a guy or he gets you interested in him , only to act like he doesn't want to be bothered or that you should be the one doing all the work to get him. I often think to myself who does he think he is or why do I have to ask him to call me or be the one to text first, or even be the one to start up conversation. If you find yourself doing this, then he's just not that into you or he must be an ass or a selfish jerk. It's funny how men say that they want a good woman who listens, cooks, cleans,can be submissive, and who is supportive, but then when one comes there way they push you to the side for the freak or the one with the messed up attitude, bangin body and who treats them like crap. Basically they settle for the 20% woman, when they could have had the 80% woman who is like the shero who can do it all and have their back through good and bad times. Let's be realistic it hurts when they don't return the feelings or when they turn them off and start to act funny towards you. All of a sudden you now feel like you have been thrown under the bus and this man is looking at you like you have the plague or like you have offended him or why would he want to talk to the likes of you! If you have ever had this happen you may feel like never opening up to another man again or like putting the walls back up, but don't. Look at it as a lesson learned and your pride bruised a bit, but knowing that you can bounce back from it and that God has your best interests at heart you will be okay.It's his loss and you know what your worth is, it's more than doing all the work and making it easy for him. After all the man is suppose to pursue the woman and make her want him. Randomly Yours, Raven Storm